engagement ring price negotiation
Posted by Koorosh Daneshgar on Feb 7th 2023

The Anatomy of Value: Are Engagement Ring Prices Negotiable?
An engagement ring remains one of the most powerful expressions of love and commitment among people. The price of an engagement ring remains a question of practicality that most people don't notice when they see a diamond.
In order to determine this, we need to take apart the ring component by component and look at how each component influences both price and the possibilities of negotiation. At Wedding Bands & Co., located in the heart of Chicago’s Gold Coast, we believe that knowing the construction of a ring means knowing the value of the ring and how you can get the most value for the money you spend without sacrificing your dream.
Below is an analysis of each component of a ring and what they imply about price, flexibility, and negotiation.
1. The Center Stone: The Heart of Value
In the anatomy of any engagement ring, the center stone — often a diamond — holds the greatest visual and monetary weight. The component alone can make up 60-80 percent of a ring’s price, which makes it a significant factor in price negotiations.
Can You Negotiate It?
Yes, but cautiously.
In Chicago’s diamond district and especially at independent jewelers like Wedding Bands & Co., there’s often more room to negotiate on diamonds that aren’t tied to luxury brands. For instance, while a custom engagement ring with a GIA certified diamond may be negotiable on cut, clarity, or carat, a diamond from Tiffany & Co. or De Beers has fixed pricing depending on the brand name and not the quality of the gem.
Local Insight:
If you are looking for engagement rings in Chicago, do not go to a national chain store, go to a local diamond specialist. Our in-house diamond consultants offer one to one consultations to help you view stones side by side and direct you to better value for your money.
2. The Setting: Craftsmanship vs. Customization
Setting is the jewelry part that surrounds the center stone and may include filigree details, smaller gemstones or a particular artistic approach. Consider it as the design of the ring.
Is There Room to Negotiate?
Yes – provided the ring is made to order or custom-made.
At Wedding Bands & Co., we design and make all of our custom settings in-house in Chicago. This gives us more flexibility when working with clients to adjust prices based on metal type, number of accent stones, and design complexity. For instance;
- Using 14K gold instead of platinum is a huge money saver.
- The price also depends on the number and size of the side stones.
Since big-box retailers have set designs and prices, local jewelers can often find ways to modify your ring design to fit your budget.

3. The Band: Material Matters
The band or shank is the base of the ring. It can be basic, elaborate or have engravings on it and the type of metal used to make the band plays a large role in the price.
Can You Negotiate the Band Price?
Yes, especially in regard to the kind of metal and custom plating.
For instance:
- A white gold engagement ring may be cheaper than the same white gold engagement ring made of platinum.
- Engravings or intricate details may increase the price but these are often negotiable when you are purchasing something else in bulk.
When buying a custom made wedding ring in Chicago, do not be afraid to ask your jeweler if changing the band material or finish can help cut down on the cost.
4. Accent Stones: Little Details, Big Opportunities
Not every ring has accent stones but many do and this is especially true for multi stone settings or halo rings. These small diamonds or gemstones add to the brilliance but can be adjusted according to the cost.
Are Accent Stones Negotiable?
Very much so.
Typically, the center stone is a larger stone and the accent diamonds are often smaller melee diamonds and there is often more:
- Quality grade (e.g. VS or SI clarity)
- Quantity and layout
- Type of gemstone (e.g., sapphires or moissanite for diamonds)
If you are having a custom design made with a Chicago jeweler, you can often ask to reduce the number of stones in the setting or make the stones smaller to lower the cost of the piece while still keeping the visual impact.
5. Time of Year: The Seasonal Sparkle
Jewelry, as well as fashion and travel, also has its own seasonal trends that affect the pricing strategy.
When is the Best Time to Negotiate?
The slower months of the year, especially summer or immediately after the holidays in January-February, give you more negotiating power.
The peak sales periods including Valentine’s Day, Christmas, and the wedding season (November through February) have tighter profit margins, but many retailers still offer special deals.
Wedding Bands & Co. tip: We operate under seasonal deals and provide bonus services such as stone enhancements, engravings, or price cuts on matching bands during low demand times. Inquire about current deals at the time of your appointment.

6. The Condition: New vs. Estate Rings
Although many people want a completely new ring, others look for pre-owned or vintage rings, and this can be a way to bargain.
How Does Condition Affect Price?
The price of a new ring made to order is less flexible, but the design and customization options are more open-ended.
Pre-owned or display rings that have been worn or displayed may have lower prices, and these discounts can be haggled over when selling them as is.
From time to time, we have pre-owned engagement rings in Chicago that we have refurbished to near new condition. These can be excellent deals — provided you are okay with a different or antique style.
7. Payment Method: Cash, Credit, or Financing
You might be surprised, but the way you pay may also help you negotiate.
Is There a Price Difference Based on Payment?
Sometimes, yes.
- Using cash might give you an advantage since it cuts down on the costs the retailer has to pay to process the sale.
- Financing or credit card purchases may not qualify for additional discounts due to processing or interest agreements.
Wedding Bands & Co. has a variety of payment plans and works with our clients to develop payment arrangements that meet their budget and lifestyle when it comes to custom engagement jewelry in Chicago.

Final Thoughts: It's More Than a Ring — It’s a Relationship
So, are engagement ring prices negotiable?
Yes — but it depends on the anatomy of the ring, the timing, the jeweler, and your approach. While big box retailers tend to be inflexible with their pricing, smaller, local jewelers in Chicago, such as Wedding Bands & Co., are often more willing to work with you and may have more flexibility.
Pro Tip: The best way to ensure value? Schedule a personalized consultation. We’ll show you different options, show you different stones, and work with you to create a ring that is both beautiful and affordable.
Let’s Create the Ring You’ve Been Dreaming Of
We believe every love story should have a ring that is special to it and a price that is reasonable.
Visit us in Chicago’s Gold Coast, at:
Wedding Bands & Co.
Location: 43 E Oak Street, 2nd Floor, Chicago, IL 60611
Phone: +13129200726
We would be delighted to arrange a free consultation for you and help you create the ideal engagement ring, tailored specifically for you.
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